What is why does he talk to everyone but me?

It's painful when someone seems to chat with everyone else but you. Here's a breakdown of possible reasons:

  • They might not realize it: Sometimes, people are simply unaware of their conversational patterns. They may not intentionally exclude you, but their interactions might naturally flow in other directions. It might be because of their social%20anxiety or simply because they feel more comfortable with others in the group.

  • Perceived Similarity/Common Ground: People tend to gravitate towards others they perceive as similar or with whom they share common interests. If they believe they don't have much in common with you, they might unintentionally focus their conversations elsewhere.

  • Misinterpretation of Your Body Language: Nonverbal cues play a big role in communication. You might unknowingly be sending signals (e.g., closed-off posture, lack of eye contact) that discourage interaction. They might interpret this as disinterest or unfriendliness.

  • Past Interactions: A previous negative or awkward interaction, even a small one, could be influencing their current behavior. They might be subconsciously avoiding a repeat of that experience. It could be related to avoidance%20behavior that might developed.

  • Social Dynamics and Group Setting: In a group, people often fall into established roles and communication patterns. You might be on the periphery of these patterns, making it less likely for them to engage with you directly.

  • Unintentional Exclusion: It's also possible that they haven't found the opportunity to include you in the conversation. Maybe they're not sure how to approach you or feel they would be intruding.

  • Personal Issues: It could be unrelated to you entirely. They might be dealing with personal issues (stress, worry, self-esteem%20issues) that affect their social behavior in general.

  • Jealousy: It can stem from a deep seated insecurity or inadequacy.